Mistresses & Misters...

Yes it says what you think it does. I want to discuss mistresses and misters. I gather that a male mistress is a mister. I have to discuss this since it is a very touchy topic for many people. I read an article this morning that prompted this blog post. It saddens me how much people turn on the wrong person, channel that anger correctly. When in a relationship, if you step outside of it, please know that there are rules. This is not to judge anyone, just to give you some tips. Rule #1 If you decide to step out, let's be respectful and not do it at your home. Bringing someone into the home your share with your mate, whether you live together or not, still opens you up to a ton of drama. Rule #2 When you decided to sleep with the married or involved person, you knew the possible outcome. You have to keep your boundaries and stay in the lane that you chose for yourself. Rule #3 If you are mad at anyone, let it be yourself because you may the decision. Be stronger then that. There are plenty of available people out there to give you what you want and need. Rule #4 If you decide to step out of your relationship, let it be with someone that has as much to loose as you do and values it. A person that has nothing to loose will always be a threat. Rule #5 If you think the grass is greener on the other side, try watering your own grass. Rule #6 you can't control other people, so remember that when you go there. Rule #7 Why be someone's #2 when you can be #1 to someone else. It is destructive and can and will possibly visit you in life when you are really happy. Be mindful of destructive behaviors and try to do better for yourself. Please know that no one is perfect, but everyone can be respectful and want better. Everyone can have self worth and everyone knows what they want out of life.