I heard a saying today "if more men would stand up, women would sit down". I'm all for strong women but when a woman is being both woman and man in the relationship she has to know when to cut her losses. Stop considering him controlling you and let him love you. Women are strong but we will never be men. Quit living in the past. If your so in love with women, date them. Give credit to the good and stop dating the trufflin' men, only to say all men are dogs or worthless. If someone always ends up with trufflin' people, they need to look at the common thread: themselves. Good morning luvs! {Tarah D}
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Sunday, February 20, 2011
5 Steps to the Yes!!
5 Steps
Ok fellas, so you want to know a few things that can get you further in your relationship or into a relationship. That is today's blog, so enjoy!
1. Tell her things that you mean, not what you think she wants to hear. Many times women can tell when a man is jiving them. They are used to men running game. So just try being opening interested in her conversation and ask questions that show interest, instead of her asking you fifty questions. Stay off your phone and pay attention because you will be able to use some the info in the future. This will show her your sensitive/vulnerable side, which women typically desire.
2. Use the info that you learned. Small things matter more than the big, at times. Yes the grand gestures are wonderful, but the small thoughtful ones also work. A single flower that she loves, porcelain doll, anything that she smiled about in the conversations on your dates. Women are kind of mushy, remember that.
3. Be date original. Try to contour your dates to the person you are dating (email me for ideas). Go outside your box. If you continue to take your dates to the same places, you are bound to run into one of the old ones. Try a museum, the zoo, a bistro, or the theater. One of the sexist and most memorable things about about a date, is where it is and how it goes. Even if it doesn't work for the two of you, she won't forget that date. Remember to open doors and pay close attention to whether she reaches over in the car and opens the door for you. That shows a little about whether she is selfish ;)
4. Do not assume. Don't assume that because this woman grew up in the deep South in a small town that she is close minded. Try to open her up to life. Just as you are trying to impress her, she is doing the same thing for you. Introduce her to things that you like, she may surprise you. Some men are interested in fishing or hunting, she may be a pro at fishing or always wanted to learn. I love to watch people play poker, but learning would be better. Videos games are a great example. She be rolling her eyes when you turn on the Xbox, but only because you tune her out when you start playing it. How about grabbing another controller and teaching her how to play. She doesn't have play every game, but she will feel included and won't nag the next you play because she sees how fun it can be. The mission is to collaborate two people, not give up what you like already.
5. Touch!!!!!- Im not saying to grope her, but do touch her hand with a graze and hold it. Gently touch the small of her back but do not run your hand up her spine until you feel like the time has come. The spine, hands and neck are ultra erotic so you will need those spots hen it's time. Touching can be hypnotizing! You want to leave with something to think about. Don't be so quick to give it her all the time. The mystery makes it worth the wait. Those gentle touches will leave things in your hands!
Those are my 5 suggestions to get your "yes". Treat her like the lady she is. If the first or second date doesn't work out, there are many more all around you. Choose your best fit.
{Tarah D}
Ok fellas, so you want to know a few things that can get you further in your relationship or into a relationship. That is today's blog, so enjoy!
1. Tell her things that you mean, not what you think she wants to hear. Many times women can tell when a man is jiving them. They are used to men running game. So just try being opening interested in her conversation and ask questions that show interest, instead of her asking you fifty questions. Stay off your phone and pay attention because you will be able to use some the info in the future. This will show her your sensitive/vulnerable side, which women typically desire.
2. Use the info that you learned. Small things matter more than the big, at times. Yes the grand gestures are wonderful, but the small thoughtful ones also work. A single flower that she loves, porcelain doll, anything that she smiled about in the conversations on your dates. Women are kind of mushy, remember that.
3. Be date original. Try to contour your dates to the person you are dating (email me for ideas). Go outside your box. If you continue to take your dates to the same places, you are bound to run into one of the old ones. Try a museum, the zoo, a bistro, or the theater. One of the sexist and most memorable things about about a date, is where it is and how it goes. Even if it doesn't work for the two of you, she won't forget that date. Remember to open doors and pay close attention to whether she reaches over in the car and opens the door for you. That shows a little about whether she is selfish ;)
4. Do not assume. Don't assume that because this woman grew up in the deep South in a small town that she is close minded. Try to open her up to life. Just as you are trying to impress her, she is doing the same thing for you. Introduce her to things that you like, she may surprise you. Some men are interested in fishing or hunting, she may be a pro at fishing or always wanted to learn. I love to watch people play poker, but learning would be better. Videos games are a great example. She be rolling her eyes when you turn on the Xbox, but only because you tune her out when you start playing it. How about grabbing another controller and teaching her how to play. She doesn't have play every game, but she will feel included and won't nag the next you play because she sees how fun it can be. The mission is to collaborate two people, not give up what you like already.
5. Touch!!!!!- Im not saying to grope her, but do touch her hand with a graze and hold it. Gently touch the small of her back but do not run your hand up her spine until you feel like the time has come. The spine, hands and neck are ultra erotic so you will need those spots hen it's time. Touching can be hypnotizing! You want to leave with something to think about. Don't be so quick to give it her all the time. The mystery makes it worth the wait. Those gentle touches will leave things in your hands!
Those are my 5 suggestions to get your "yes". Treat her like the lady she is. If the first or second date doesn't work out, there are many more all around you. Choose your best fit.
{Tarah D}
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day Blog for the Guys
Everything I read for Valentine's day is always about the ladies, so I decided to give a shout out to the guys and a few tips! First let me say, thank you to all the good men in the world. Many times I hear the bad things that men do, but it is time for some recognition on their part. Thank you to the men, that are romantic outside of holidays, remember all the important days, take care of home, cook and clean, help to keep their woman stress free, and maintain their status as the KING of the household! I am thankful mine in every way! Now for the blog....I'm sure the guys wonder why Valentine's day is so important to women. Its a holiday that was made up by the card companies and besides the V-day massacre should be enough to make you want to ignore this day. For most men, there is no such luck. The best thing to do is not complain and just grab some flowers, candy, and cook her dinner or make reservations. Most women are very easy to please with some effort put forth. If you do appreciative things throughout the year, some women do not require anything big for V-day. Its a love holiday, women are emotional creatures so naturally many want to celebrate it. In some cases it can be a "make or break" for your relationship. Guys, the best advice I can give you is to be the best man you can be all year. If you have no idea what to do for this day, here are a few quick tips. *Start her morning with a love letter. If you live together, place it at her bedside before she wakes. If you do not live together, send an email, not a text or hand deliver it with 1 single rose. * Have her lunch sent to her job. * Prepare dinner or make reservations- if you prepare dinner, make sure the setup is right. Rose pedals from the front door to the table and put the remaining pedals on the table. Place a bottle of chilled champagne, candles, and a small token gift on the table. Whatever meal you prepare make sure you properly decorate the plate. You can use a sauce to make a heart around the food on the plate. Try something different for the meal. Cooking is better than reservations because there are too many people out on that day. Its very personal when you are alone and its well thought out. You could also use the floor instead of the table for the picnic setup (super sexy) *Get a small bottle or jar and put small pieces of paper that state something that you will do, inside of it. These things could be " a back massage, foot rub, picnic, doing the dishes" anything along those lines. On this day you want to personalize what you do for her. The more thought you put into this, the better your "thank you" will be. And you know you want the thank you. If you need any ideas, email me!! You want your woman going back to work with a smile on her face. She will be able to say more then "he got me flowers at work" a lot of men do that. You want her co-workers to say "Dang, her man is smooth, all I got was flowers!" {Tarah D}
Key Point for the ladies- Appreciate a good man if you have one and recognize a good one when he is coming your way. They like nice things too, V-day is not all about receiving gifts and it is not a one way day! Show him some love also, not because you expect something, but because you really care.
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