Sexual Inhibitions

Sexual Inhibitions

Are black women more sexually inhibited then other races? If so, why is that? From a young age black women are taught what not to do but never what should be done. I think the fear of properly exploring sexuality can be detrimental. I have heard many women say that they are closed off to certain sexual experiences because they fear what the man will think of them once they try. Men, you have to make them feel comfortable enough to go there with you. They have to feel secure and safe. They just want to know that they will not be judged. So fellas, take your woman, look her in her eyes, and be her willing prisoner for the night, afternoon or morning! 
Until next time.....{Tarah D}

Ménage à trois!

Ok, so what's really the big deal with threesomes? Well the ladies have said that it is deeper then the men think. You hear the normal things such as, they don't want to share, its selfish on his part, or its nasty. In all actuality the men should have a bigger issue with threesomes. I say this because the men fail to realize that their woman may become more engaged in the other woman. They may take the relationship out of the initial setting and explore new avenues. This may sound like a good thought, but fathom this.... She starts meeting this woman 3 times a week and now she is more distant with you. You are pretty sure that you give her great loving in the bedroom, but she still seems uninterested. That's because you can not compete with a woman in any way. Fighting for her with a man is one thing, but a woman brings on a whole new arena. This setup may work for some but not all.  Think about that before you run that idea by her!
Until next time....

Just a thought from the mind of the thoughtful

Many speak of forgiveness, but how often do you live by it. In life there are no do-overs, be careful what you do with the life you have. Make sound decisions and choose your words wisely. Life is a battlefield, and the words and tongue are your weapons. Pick your battles, everything is not a fight, smile! A smile is worth a million bucks!
{Tarah D.}