Love or Friendship?

I was watching divorce court one day and each person was saying "I still love him/her, but I want out"! So my question is, what makes the marriage last? In my opinion, it is the friendship. No matter how much you love your mate, you must be their friend first. A marriage can not blissfully succeed without it. My reason is simple.... Your friends are easily forgiven. They may lie to you or even talk behind your back, but somehow you say it's ok and are friends once again. If at some point your spouse disagrees with you or tells you a white lie, oh it's over!!! Call the lawyers and divide this stuff up! So often do people say, Why can he/she not talk to me, the way they are so open with their friends. Well, why not open the door. First, leave the judgement, criticism, and snarky comments at the door. Your spouse wants a friend, not a tyrant, judge or jury. It's never to late unless the proceedings have begun, but even then you never know. Marriages and relationships are on a rapid decline, when the vows were said, they were said with forever on mind. Now if it is most definitely a done deal , so be it!